What does it mean to surrender to a powerful woman?
Most women do not see a man for what he is.
A Dominatrix does.
The Essence
At the core of the dynamic is trust between Domme and sub which starts the moment you make contact with her.
It’s the reassurance that your Domme respects your boundaries and is attuned to your needs, both physically and emotionally.
Revealing Yourself
FemmeDomme allows people to do something profound – to reveal their innermost vulnerabilities.
Opening up and sharing parts of yourself maybe for the first time that society often deems as shameful.
This act through play, is a powerful form of self-expression and daring.
Long-Term Benefits
As trust deepens, you gradually expose more of your vulnerabilities, leading to a richer and more profound playtime.
It’s akin to taking off the layers of armor you wear in your daily life, allowing someone else to take off the weight of your world for a while.
Here is what a sub of mine has said about his submissive experience;
‘‘I feel so submissive under you and I travel more deeply into subspace. I feel at peace and my conscious mind stops its chattering.’’
The Exploration of Self
This is a space to explore hidden facets of your personality, a concept in psychology often referred to by Carl Jung as “the shadow”.
By exploring these shadowy aspects of your personality, through the medium of erotic play;
it becomes clear what is truth and what has been taught.
By embracing and understanding these hidden parts of yourself, you become more whole.
Flipping the Dynamics
Surrendering is a powerful act.
It challenges societal conditioning about how men and women ‘should’ relate, bringing the dynamics closer to how nature intended **in the heteronormative sense.
In this hierarchy, women are in their true state in the natural order as opposed to the unnatural framework which has been largely present in our ancestry.
A Dominatrix is an incarnation of the Goddess in this sense.
She is shrouded in mystery and misconceptions to those who haven’t dared venture into her, yet.
She is here to remind you that in surrendering control,
You find liberation and a deeper understanding of yourself in your most raw and primal form, your sexuality.
This is why FemmeDomme is so fucking sexy.
**Pic courtesy of @ukfetisharchives on Instagram